Therapy Techniques for Oklahoma Clients

Michael blends Brainspotting and somatic approaches to bridge the gap between talk therapy and physical regulation. This method targets the subcortical brain, allowing you to access and release stored tension that the conscious mind cannot always articulate. By focusing on the mind-body connection, we work to resolve the physical stressors that standard conversation often misses.

Targeted Support

Using fixed eye positions and body-based awareness, Michael helps clients build trust in their physical signals and find safety within their own nervous system. This approach is specifically tailored for:

  • Trauma Treatment: Accessing and resolving deep-seated emotional blockages and complex PTSD without the need to relive every detail verbally.

  • LGBTQIA+ Community: Exploring self acceptance, traumas unique to the community, and learning to heal from ongoing stress.

  • Performers/Athletes: Overcoming performance blocks and managing the high-pressure "fight or flight" responses of competitive sports.

  • Neurodivergent Adults: Navigating sensory sensitivities and regulating the nervous system in an overwhelming world.

  • Weight & Body Image: Processing weight-related distress and healing the impact of chronic stress on the body.

The Somatic Advantage

For those managing neurodivergence or athletic strain, the body often reacts before the mind can process the event. Brainspotting facilitates a "bottom-up" recovery, fostering resilience and mental clarity by resolving trauma in the body.

 
  • Brainspotting is a therapeutic approach that identifies and processes underlying trauma by pinpointing specific eye positions that correlate with emotional and psychological distress. Developed by Dr. David Grand, it operates on the premise that certain spots in a client's visual field can trigger and access unresolved traumatic memories or emotions stored in the body. During a session, a therapist guides the client to locate these "brainspots" through their gaze, which is believed to tap into the brain's natural self-healing processes, facilitating the release and processing of deep-seated emotional issues. This method is used to treat a variety of conditions, including trauma, anxiety, and depression, offering a powerful avenue for healing by directly engaging with the body's innate ability to recover and restore emotional well-being.

  • What is Brainspotting?

    By Developer and Trainer David Grand, Ph.D.

     

    “Brainspotting is based on the profound attunement of the therapist with the patient, finding a somatic cue and extinguishing it by down-regulating the amygdala. It isn’t just PNS (Parasympathetic Nervous System) activation that is facilitated, it is homeostasis.”

    -- Robert Scaer, MD, “The Trauma Spectrum"

     

    Brainspotting is a powerful, focused treatment method that works by identifying, processing, and releasing core neurophysiological sources of emotional/body pain, trauma, dissociation and a variety of other challenging symptoms. Brainspotting is a simultaneous form of diagnosis and treatment, enhanced with Biolateral sound, which is deep and direct yet focused and containing.

    Brainspotting gives us a tool, within this clinical relationship, to neurobiologically locate, focus, process, and release experiences and symptoms that are typically out of reach of the conscious mind’s cognitive and language capacity.

    Brainspotting works with the deep brain and the body through its direct access to the autonomic and limbic systems within the body’s central nervous system. Brainspotting is accordingly a physiological tool/treatment which has profound psychological, emotional, and physical consequences.

     The use of Brainspotting can support the clinical healing relationship. There is no replacement for a mature and nurturing therapeutic presence and the ability to engage another suffering human in a safe and trusting relationship where they feel heard, accepted, and understood.

    It is theorized that Brainspotting taps into and harnesses the body’s innate self-scanning capacity to process and release focused areas (systems) which are in a maladaptive homeostasis (frozen primitive survival modes). This may also explain the ability of Brainspotting to often reduce and eliminate body pain and tension associated with physical conditions.

    A “Brainspot” is the eye position which is related to the energetic/emotional activation of a traumatic/emotionally charged issue within the brain, most likely in the amygdala, the hippocampus, or the orbitofrontal cortex of the limbic system. Located by eye position, paired with externally observed and internally experienced reflexive responses, a Brainspot is actually a physiological subsystem holding emotional experience in memory form.

    When a Brainspot is stimulated, the deep brain reflexively signals the therapist that an area of significance has been located. This typically happens out of the client’s conscious awareness. There are a multitude of reflexive responses, including eye twitches, wobbles, freezes, blinks (hard and double blinks) pupil dilation and constriction, narrowing, facial tics, brow furrowing, sniffs, swallows, yawns, coughs, head nods, hand signals, foot movement, and body shifting. Reflexive facial expressions are powerful indicators of Brainspots.

    The appearance of a reflexive response as the client attends to the somatosensory experience of the trauma, emotional or somatic problem is an indication that a Brainspot has been located and activated. The Brainspot can then be accessed and stimulated by holding the client’s eye position while the client is focused on the somatic/sensory experience of the symptom or problem being addressed in the therapy.

    The maintenance of that eye position/Brainspot within the attentional focus on the body’s “felt sense” of that issue or trauma stimulates a deep integrating and healing process within the brain. This processing, which appears to take place at a reflexive or cellular level within the nervous system, brings about a de-conditioning of previously conditioned, maladaptive emotional and physiological responses. Brainspotting appears to stimulate, focus, and activate the body’s inherent capacity to heal itself from trauma.

    “Inside window” Brainspotting requires the therapist and client to participate together to locate Brainspots through the client’sfelt sense of the experience at the highest intensity of affect/body distress. Brainspotting can be done with one eye or two. Brainspotting can be directed at distress and can also be directed at establishing and strengthening resources.

    Brainspotting is also very useful to access and develop internal resource states end experiences. These resources allow the therapist and patient, where necessary, to “pendulate” between resource, or positive states, and trauma states during Brainspotting to enable more gradual, graded processing and desensitization of intensely traumatic and emotionally charged issues and symptoms.

    Brainspotting processes down to the reflexive core. Often when it appears one has reached a zero distress level, a new strata or floor is broken through, allowing a deeper probing into the brain. The reflexive core is in the deep, unconscious body brain. It is as out of our awareness as respiration, circulation, and digestion. Brainspotting dismantles the trauma, symptom, somatic distress, and dysfunctional beliefs at the reflexive core.

    Brainspotting is a “body to body” approach, where the Brainspot is the target or “focus/activation point”. Distress is activated and located in the body and the focus/activation point, aka theBrainspot, is found based on eye position. Everything is aimed at activating, locating, and processing the Brainspot. Contrastingly, EMDR is where the traumatic memory is the “target.”

    Brainspotting is most powerful and effective when done with the enhancement of BioLateral Sound. Biolateral sound enhances the brain’s processing abilities by alternately stimulating each cerebral hemisphere. For highly dissociated or very fragile clients, Brainspotting can be initiated without any bilateral intensification, which can be added later as the client is more integrated and flexible. The healing sound directly enters the brain through the auditory nerves while the eardrums are vibrated bilaterally.

    Any life event which causes significant physical and/or emotional injury and distress, in which the person intensely experiences being overwhelmed, helpless, or trapped, can become a traumatic experience.

    There is growing recognition within the healing professions that experiences of physical and/or emotional injury, acute and chronic pain, serious physical illness, dealing with difficult medical interventions, societal turmoil, environmental disaster, as well as many other problematic life events, will contribute to the development of a substantial reservoir of life traumas. Those traumas are held in the body.

    In most cases, the traumatized individual does not usually have the opportunity or the support to adequately process and integrate traumatic life events. Traumatic experiences then become a part of that individual’s trauma reservoir. The body and the psyche cannot remain unaffected by the physical, energetic, and emotional costs extracted by this accumulated trauma load. The medical and psychological literature now acknowledges that approximately 75% of requests for medical care are linked to the actions or consequences of this accumulation of stress and/or trauma upon the systems of the human body.

    Every health care professional encounters treatment situations in which physical symptoms cannot be separated from their emotional or psychological correlates. Traumatic life experiences, whether physical or emotional, are often significant contributing factors in the development and/or maintenance of most of the symptoms and problems encountered in health care.

    Brainspotting is a physiological therapeutic tool which can be integrated into a wide range of healing modalities, including psychological, as well as somatic approaches to treatment. Brainspotting can be useful as a complement to various body-based therapies including advanced bodywork, chiropractic, acupuncture, physical therapy, nursing, medicine, and other specialized approaches to physical healing. It is a valuable resource in the treatment of varying medical, physical, and psycho-emotional issues and symptoms encountered by health professionals.

    Brainspotting provides a neurobiological tool for accessing, diagnosing, and treating a multitude of somatic and emotionally-based conditions.

     

    This description can be found at: https://brainspotting.com/about-bsp/what-is-brainspotting/

     

    More information and videos can be found on https://brainspotting.com/

  • EMDR is a type of therapy that helps people who have experienced distressing or traumatic events. It’s based on the idea that our brains have a natural ability to heal from difficult experiences, but sometimes these experiences can get ‘stuck’ and continue to affect us in negative ways.

    EMDR uses different techniques, such as eye movements or other forms of bilateral stimulation, to help activate the brain’s natural healing process. It allows people to process their memories and emotions related to the trauma, which can lead to a reduction in distress and the development of more adaptive coping mechanisms.

    EMDR has been shown to be effective in helping individuals overcome the impact of traumatic experiences and find greater emotional well-being.

  • With DBT-informed therapy we focus on mindfulness (experiencing thoughts and emotions without judgment). We work together to learn to tolerate all emotions and express them without being self-destructive. We learn about different perspectives on actions and work to accept that there is duality in all actions, thoughts, and emotions. We work together to leave black and white thinking.

  • Insurances: BCBS, Aetna, Optom Plans (United, UMR, Oscar, Taro), Healthchoice, Healthcare highways

    Private rate: $175 with sliding scale determined by need.

 

Specialties for Oklahoma Clients

Michael offers a trauma-informed, holistic approach that integrates mental, physical, and emotional health. With a background in nutrition and competitive martial arts, he specializes in body image/weight management and performance related therapy, challenging traditional diet culture to foster true mental clarity.

His clinical foundation is built upon a diverse academic background, including both a Bachelor of Science and a Master of Science in Dietetics. This nutritional expertise, combined with his experience competing in martial arts, informs his holistic approach to mental health and the vital link between physical and psychological well-being.

Since 2010, he has worked extensively in the fields of sexual health and substance abuse, including service in a Medically Assisted Treatment (MAT) clinic during his candidacy. As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) and a LEND fellow—a leadership designation focused on interdisciplinary advocacy and support for those with neurodevelopmental disabilities— he brings a high level of specialized knowledge to his practice.

He is formally trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), DBT, and holds a certification in Brainspotting. These modalities allow him to help clients enhance their mind-body connection while effectively navigating and processing intense anxiety.

Neurodivergence and Physical Health

Through specialized training with the Oklahoma LEND program, Michael provides expert support for autistic adults and neurodivergent individuals. He focuses on the intersection of neurodivergence and physical health, offering personalized strategies for sensory regulation and trauma recovery. Michael’s somatic approach helps regulate the nervous system to improve resilience and recovery.

  • We focus on demasking and empowering individuals to embrace their authentic selves. Together, we explore triggers for overstimulation, fostering greater awareness of our bodies and responses. By embracing routine while cultivating flexibility, we create balance and adaptability in daily life.

    Social skills are enhanced by recognizing and celebrating natural strengths, while self-advocacy becomes a cornerstone of personal growth. We also work on developing healthy coping strategies for managing stress, helping individuals build resilience and confidence in navigating life’s challenges.

    For those with ADHD, we work to embrace the natural state of our mind. We work on coping strategies and building a stronger connection between the mind and body.

  • We work collaboratively with clients to help them identify and experience their emotions without judgment, using mindfulness techniques to foster self-awareness and acceptance. Trauma, whether immediately apparent or not, often contributes to intense emotions such as anger, fear, anxiety, sadness, guilt, and shame.

    Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Brainspotting are highly effective therapeutic approaches for addressing trauma. Brainspotting, in particular, helps access and process deep-seated trauma by targeting specific areas in the brain linked to emotional and physical pain. Additionally, talk therapy provides a safe space to explore and understand the thoughts and emotions stemming from trauma, empowering individuals on their path to recovery.

  • Navigating life in Central Oklahoma comes with unique joys and challenges. Our Affirming Care specialty is dedicated to providing high-quality, trauma-informed support for people of all backgrounds and identities. We focus on building a strong therapeutic alliance where your identity is honored as a core part of your health and well-being. By integrating somatic techniques and brain-based therapy, we help you process chronic stress and build the resilience needed to live an authentic, fulfilling life in the community you call home.

  • At Pride in Self Counseling, therapy for body image/weight management and performance anxiety helps adults explore their relationship with their bodies and physical potential in a safe and affirming environment. It focuses on understanding the emotional, physical, and relational aspects of health to promote confidence, consistency, and a stronger mind-body connection. Many people seek this specialized support to address challenges such as performance anxiety, body-related distress, or the impact of past setbacks on athletic identity.

    The approach is trauma-informed and client-centered, using somatic techniques and brainspotting to help clients rebuild trust in their body's signals and overcome mental blocks. By targeting the nervous system, these methods allow individuals to move past the circular thoughts of anxiety and tap into their natural physical intuition.

    Body image/weight management and performance related therapy are not about succumbing to external pressure or diet culture, but about helping you define what a healthy and functional lifestyle means for you. Whether you want to overcome the anxiety of competition, navigate the complexities of body image, or simply feel more at ease and regulated in your own skin, therapy offers support and guidance.

    The goal is to help you build a physically active life that reflects your values, comfort, and authentic self.

    Regulating the Performance Response

    In sports and weight management, the body often enters a state of high arousal. When this arousal turns into anxiety, performance drops. Brainspotting helps locate the "spot" in the brain where this tension is held to bring the nervous system back into balance.